Recently my friend sent me a video about people who were gun victims and gun advocates. The purpose of the video was to show an experiment where gun victims and gun advocates came together to share their stories to each other (one-on-one), and then tell the other person's story in first person (I'll link the video below if you want to get a better sense of it. It's easier to watch than explain). It was very emotional and personal; many of the stories involved deaths of loved ones or violent situations, but the people that stood out the most were the two of the people that were both pro-gun rights and had physical disabilities. One was a woman and the other was a man. Both described feelings of vulnerability because of their physical disability and said that having a gun made them feel safer. The woman said that disabled women are three times as likely to be assaulted by someone compared to a woman without disabilities. The statistic really shocked me. It made me think about how vulnerable they must feel at times, and how we make them seem vulnerable. I think that because we don't normalize people with disabilities, we make them seem abnormal and sometimes less than an actual human when in reality they do the same things as we do.
I felt ignorant when I actually started researching the statistic that the woman in the video brought up, because I had never heard of it. We keep their issues at a "safe distance from other human issues," and as a result become blind to the them until we come across some video on Facebook that mentions it (Mairs 14). Upon researching I found that even the most innocent members of society suffer from this. A child with a mental disability is at 4 times the risk of experiencing violence or abuse compared to a child without one according to the World Health Organization.
Disgusting.
This issue needs to be made known. It needs to be a priority. How can we let people just like us be abused and exploited? There are too many people in this very country that are in need of help. People are people. We need to help each other, and treat each other as equals. The country we live in isn't the land of the free. There's no equality yet, and quite honestly I've become disillusioned with those words that promise equality and freedom when it's obvious not everyone is.
America. 2017.
Link to the video I mentioned: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jph5M0dGokA
It's long but it's definitely worth your time
This post shocked/saddened me so much. Thank you for sharing and bringing awareness to this topic; I had no idea, but like you said, it makes sense. It makes so much sense that it hurts me. This was so well done, and I think your blunt writing style really paralleled Mairs'. Nice post!
ReplyDeleteI completely agree with your stance! It's terrible that we have to go searching, or years later see a Facebook post, to be aware of certain issues. Awareness can be key to preventing these terrible things. I for one, do not want to be "kept at a safe distance". Thanks for the great post!
ReplyDeleteI so agree. People need to become more aware and conscious of the disabilities people have. Disabilities shouldn't be looked at as something so negative.
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